She’s questioning how she’s ever going to find love again in the future. So if Tami wants to know where she went wrong in choosing her husband… Instead, learn to appreciate the guy who does what he says, who says what he means, who makes it clear that you’re a priority to him.
Most of all, she’s questioning her own judgment, which is the hardest thing to do when you pride yourself on being intelligent and rational. And I’m betting that you’re a lot better off without that guy than you are with him. …or if you’ve struggled for years to figure out why you choose the wrong men… You’ve been investing in the least important qualities. After all, the guy who doesn’t prioritize you now is NEVER going to prioritize you. Am I just a big sap for thinking that character is a better predictor of relationship stability than chemistry?
One of the most common things I hear from my clients is this: “I understand that I have to compromise on some things to be in a relationship, but how do I know WHAT I should compromise on? Which is why I want to tell you what REALLY matters in a man…
” If you’ve ever asked yourself the same question, I understand. I wanted to “just know” that she was the “right” person for me. Yesterday, I was instant messaging an old friend on Facebook.
As I mentioned earlier in Part one of Biggest Dating/ Relationship Mistakes, the first week or two will be amazing and the girl will seem almost perfect but this is before her pain body comes out to play.