And then, he rejected her in the ultimate way, by divorcing her. Something they thought they were 110% certain about, they turned out to be wrong about. There’s a seriousness that divorcees inevitably carry.
How to date a married man and not be miserable or get hurt.
I'm going to address this directly to women to avoid mental, emotional and physical trauma.
Even if he lives separately, even if he says he and his wife have not been intimate for years, even if he says they are "separated," even if he says that they both want a divorce, even if you meet her and she says she is okay with it, this is all theoretical.
When things actually happen, people do not react logically but instead emotionally and unpredictably.
You deserve a great guy like that, but one who can be there for you. 'I'm very flattered that you want to date me however I am not comfortable even socializing with you until I see a copy of your divorce filing.