– Desert Island a numbers game, but you won't win anything if you're exhausted and feeling bad about yourself. It's OK to spend a few weeks letting men email you. It helps to have quality, out-of-the-house social time to balance all of the hours spent staring at your computer, wondering why some guy winked and then disappeared. I wish I could tell you why these guys wink, like, and then ignore your emails.
I want to let you know that it is not anything that you said nor have you offended me in any way.
This is a difficult for me to say, but I feel I have to be upfront with you.
I have a great job, I own a house, and I feel like I have my head on straight.
I have also been single for close to a decade (mostly due to my own fear of getting into another relationship).
Last fall I decided that it's OK for me to move on and try to find someone to love again. I have tried a couple of different sites and even casually dated someone for a couple of months before he told me he basically wasn't that into me.